You don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
You don’t have to be what your father/mother/lover/brother/sister/boss/best friend want or need you to be, to be loved.
You can be emotional, you can get mad, you can be jealous sometimes, and sad, as well as happy and brilliant and loving, and be loved.
You can get mad at someone, and still love them.
Someone can get mad at you, and still love you.
You can have unfinished business, a restlessness, a gnawing, and still be loved.
You can have a problem, or even the same problem you’ve had for years, and be loved.
Your business can fail, and you can be loved.
Your clients can get mad at you, think badly of you, nd you can be loved.
You can do poorly at your job, and be loved.
You can be a twit or a twat or a twerp, and be loved.
You can win all the prizes, and be loved.
You can succeed past your wildest dreams, and be loved.
You can travel far and wide, and be loved.
You can stay in the same zip code all your days, and be loved.
You can piss everyone you know off, and be loved.
You can be mean, and be loved.
You can be more thoughtful than most, and be loved.
You can be strong and radiant, and be loved.
You can be weak, weepy and bereft, and be loved.
It is not the clothing that makes the difference, be it circumstances, judgments, evaluations or facades.
It is the choice you make, over and over again, that makes all the difference.
It’s just one choice at at time, in the 80,000 choices we make in a day.
As simple as choosing you, early and often, over and over.
Chose to be on your side, no matter what.
Chose to love you, no matter what.
Chose to stand by you, no matter what.
Chose to love and be you, no matter what, and then you have a True North, context for making all the other 80,000 decisions and choices you make in a day, because now you have direction.
Clear. Consistent. Direction.
Keep it simple, sweetie.
“Does this thought-choice-feeling-conclusion feed me, or does it bleed me?”
Follow the sense-ations of your body, the light, and you will find your way Home, to You, and watch the world change, as if by magic.
Because going deep and being You IS the only game in town.